In early 2017, I set a goal for myself to do a single unassisted pull up. It’s October, and I’m still working on it. And that’s a win. Why is it a win, if I haven’t met my goal yet? Because without accountability from the personal trainers that I mentioned my goal to, I would have given up by now. Finding an accountability partner My trainer, Beth, pictured above helping me develop the … [Read more...] about Step 13: Ask Someone(s) for Accountability
RELATIONSHIPS AND COMMUNICATION
In Life, We All Want to Be Heard
Deep inside, we all want to be heard and valued for who we are. We want to express ourselves. And we do not want to be judged. But how often does that happen? Awareness of the Need to be Heard Last fall, I volunteered at the Unity Project hosted by my church, which fronts a busy street at the edge of a university campus. So when a stranger walked toward me from the sidewalk, curious to … [Read more...] about In Life, We All Want to Be Heard
Faith & Sweat: Fostering Hope
For more than 20 years, National Adoption Month has been observed in November to raise awareness of children and teenagers in foster care who await permanent families. This month, as part of a periodic feature of someone exemplifying Faith & Sweat, meet the Turnure family. Janet and Doug Turnure’s journey to becoming foster and adoptive parents began while taking a family walk on a summer … [Read more...] about Faith & Sweat: Fostering Hope
And Two Shall Become One: Thoughts on Marriage and Faith
Tent and towels flap in the warm, steady, ocean breeze. Waves crash ashore and seagulls hover. I mindlessly drag my feet through the sand in front of my chair, making valleys and hills and then flattening them out as I watch our son skim-boarding in the shallow water of low tide. I taste the salt on my lips, and breathe in the warm air, relaxed. I could sit here all day. As my husband … [Read more...] about And Two Shall Become One: Thoughts on Marriage and Faith
Faith and Sweat: Healing After Domestic Violence
On the 1st of each month, we feature a story of someone putting their "Faith & Sweat" into action. This month, meet Dr. Angelia Riggsbee, a domestic violence survivor and advocate. If you or someone you know needs help, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at (800) 799-SAFE (7233). In the time it takes you to read this article, an estimated 96 people in the United States will be … [Read more...] about Faith and Sweat: Healing After Domestic Violence
My Birthday Gifts – To You
Today is my birthday - woo hoo! I like to be remembered and celebrated, a little. I also like to celebrate others, and I believe in celebrating every single day. When's your birthday? Can we celebrate it today, with mine? Awesome. Happy Birthday, and Happy Un-Birthday. Yes, we will sing songs. Yes, we will enjoy cake. Yes, we will give gifts. Yes, we will show up with all of our … [Read more...] about My Birthday Gifts – To You